Why You Should Keep Things in Perspective

After the ceremony, make a point of being the glowing bride that you should be, and don't worry about things that you can obviously not do anything about now. For instance, if a guest brings a friend who wasn't on the guest list, smile, and ask for an extra chair for the guest. Or, if the starter doesn't look quite like what you ordered, it really doesn't matter. Only you know about it, and the guests will probably enjoy it anyway. Your friends, family, and other guests at your wedding are not going to judge you if there are slight mistakes, or if anything doesn't run as it should, as they will be too busy enjoying themselves, to worry about trivialities. If any of your so-called friends are inclined to nit-pick , make a mental note to not include them in any future celebrations, as they are not true friends.